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Why do you want love? This is one of the first questions Shynia Baldwin asks readers in her new relationship guide, Let’s Get Matched, Not Just Addicted to Love. She warns readers that the answer might not be as simple as they expect. As with all writing exercises in her guide, she asks readers to use this question as an opportunity for mental reflection. Why do you want love?
Do you believe you deserve love? Baldwin assures readers boldly that yes, you do deserve love. Low self-esteem and the belief that you can’t function in a relationship are issues holding you back from potential matches.
Through thirty-one exercises, learn how your relationship past relates to your present and how you may be repeating harmful patterns in all your relationship endeavors. Baldwin shows you how to give yourself permission to focus on your goals and work toward success. Readers will finish the book with better self-esteem and a healthier sense of self-acceptance. Although the guide focuses mainly on romantic relationships, Baldwin’s advice can be applied to a wide variety of interpersonal dynamics. It can be used to improve your bonds with your family, friends, and coworkers.
As the sun shined upon the horizon of her heart she knew without love she was a mere shadow of her true "SELF ”-Author-
WHEN I EXAMINED MY LIFE... I noticed my pattern of attracting selfish, disloyal people reflected the disloyalty and lack of self-worth that I had for myself. I realized that those beliefs were being projected subconsciously into my relationships. "Let’s Get Matched, Not Just Addicted to Love" helped me look at how I loved and why I usually looked for love in all the wrong people, places, and bad situations.
If I am ever to receive and give the kind of love that I deserve, I had to first explore all the “what’s and why’s” That was connected to my present, my future, and then break those strong holds over me; so that I am able to attract the type of love, and healthy relationships that I am meant to have in my life.
People are very unique and what I am proposing will not be easy a task. Building these connections takes time but trust me it will be worth it in the end. Building and sustaining healthy relationships is at the forefront of mankind successfully being able to build and unify communities. In fact, the fate of the universe depends on mankind learning how to sustain genuine connections with one another. In order to achieve that, the hard truth must be honestly explored if any of us are to ever receive and give love in its purest and most powerful form.
Together, we all can muster up the courage needed to “Let Go and Get Matched” to a better life. This workbook will help examine the REAL reasons why people have become unsuccessful when it comes to having and then sustaining healthy relationships. Think of this Workbook as a go to manual that can be used to help sustain healthy relationships. The understanding of relationships is not an easy job.